Cheers to 8 Years of Charming Spaces!

What? How did this happen? 8 YEARS?!

Nine years ago, I had a 8-year-old and a 4-year-old. I was working full-time in an office, 7am to 4pm. I wasn’t necessarily unhappy, but I was bored (I didn’t know it then, but looking back, it’s clear now that I was meant to be an entreprenuer). I was a single mom trying to get out of debt and looking for a side hustle when I found organizing.

“Wait, people will pay for that? I’m great at that! Are you sure that’s a real job? I can’t run a business…”

A year later, after talking my then-boyfriend’s (now husband’s) ear off about this organizing thing, he gave me the nudge I needed. I don’t remember exactly what he said, but it was something to the effect of, ‘Just go do the thing already. You can do this!’”

Charming Spaces was launched on May 1, 2017….back when “girl boss” was the vibe.

Gratitude

My how things have changed. With each passing year, I reflect on how far we’ve come. Things we’ve accomplished and what we’ve changed. I have learned so much.

To our clients, without you, we wouldn’t be here. You have trusted us, year after year, to come into your most sacred spaces. We have joined you and walked along side you through new babies, marriage, promotions, launching businesses, as well as divorce and loss. Your trust is the most valuable gift. Thank you.

To our team, both past and current, Charming Spaces is what it is today because of your contributions. You make a difference every single day. Not just in the lives of our clients, but in the lives of each other, and definitely for me. Each of you bring something special to the table and I have learned from every single one of you. Thank you.

To my husband, children, and family, you have always supported me unconditionally. Not many women can say that. I recognize the gift and privilege that you’ve given me. You’ve taken my calls, hyped me up, and have built my confidence. Thank you.

Accomplishments

  • We have helped countless women - which is our whole mission!

  • The amount of returning clients and word of mouth referrals that we have.

  • Being an amazing and sought after place to work for women.

  • 67 Five Star Google Reviews!

  • Traveling across the world to organize in Baku!

  • Joining the board for Napo Houston

  • Doing numerous things that have put me outside of my comfort zone and have forced me to grow.

 

Things I’ve Learned

  • I can do hard things.

  • I can teach people to do hard things.

  • I need a cancelation policy.

  • I need other organizers in my life.

  • Sometimes, you just have to outsource.

  • Clear is kind. Have the hard conversations, quickly.

  • I can’t help everyone and not every client is for me.

  • If I miss a phone call, life will go on.

  • Perhaps the hardest lesson, everyone on the team will eventually move on. I am the only owner here. I can be sad about this, sure, but I can also empower and build my team so that they are better women when they leave than they were when they started. Making the world a better place, one Charming Spaces employee at a time.

 

What hasn’t changed

With each lesson we learn, there are a few things that have remained constant. One of those is our core values, beliefs, and the heart behind the service we offer. We believe in women. We offer them unwaivering and judgement free support. I remain passionate about liberating women from the weight that can be their home and their possessions. We remain committed to freeing a woman’s mind so she can go out into the world and be the badass she is meant to be.

Looking Ahead

We have grown leaps and bounds year after year. I am satisfied with the amount of revenue and business we have, but we need to work on perfecting a few things. Automations, workflows, and getting this thing to run without me, is my real goal. That doesn’t mean I am going anywhere, quite the contrary, but if my team is empowered to run the business, I can step in where I am most needed and where I most enjoy.

Thank you for being a part of our story. Here’s to the spaces we’ve created, the lives we’ve transformed, and to all that is still to come.

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Book Review: The 5AM Club by Robin Sharma

Why I Chose This Book

This book has been mentioned time and time again at business conferences and podcasts. It’s been on my wishlist for quite some. I’m also knee deep into my fitness journey right now and figured waking up at 5am must have something to do with exercise - spoiler alert: it does.

I did listen to the audio version, narrated by Adam Verner.

Quick Summary of 5AM Club

The 5AM club is a self-help book that obviously promotes waking up at 5am. Every. Single. Day. Yes, even weekends.

Robin explains that doing this will maximize productivity, improve focus, and upgrade your overall quality of life. The book follows a fictional story of a billionare mentor guru type who is teaching an artist and an entrepreneur through the life changing magic of waking up at 5am.

Own your morning, elevate your life.
— Robin Sharma
 

Top Takeaways for Business Owners

  • Follow the 20/20 Formula
    In the first hour of waking up, from 5 to 6am, divide your hour into 3 parts.

    • Movement: intense exercise for 20 minutes

    • Reflect: Meditate, journal, pray for 20 minutes

    • Grow: Read, study, grow your craft for 20 minutes

  • Habit Installation Protocol
    Robin says forming a habit takes 66 days and can be broken down into three phases.

    • Destruction: Breaking old habits

    • Installation: Creating new habits

    • Integration: Hardwiring new habits to your identiy

  • First 90 Minutes

    The first 90 minutes of your workday should be spent focusing on the most important tasks that will actually move your business forward. No distractions, no meetings, no multitasking.

How I’m Applying It to My Business

Well….I’m not sure that I am. Look, I get the idea. I am intrigued by the idea of waking up each morning before the rest of the house and I do think spending that time to myself reading, journaling, or planning could be great for my business. I don’t think I’ll follow the 20/20/20 rule though. Here’s why

  • My workouts are usually closer to an hour or more and I like it that way

  • Food? Coffee?

  • What about the time spent in between these activities? I don’t think working myself into a sweaty mess and then trying to focus on deep work is going to work for me. That would be a huge distraction

So maybe my real issue is with the workout part. I can see myself adapting the plan to something like this:

  • 20 minutes to reflect

  • 20 minutes to grow (reading)

  • 20 minutes to work on a big project I don’t normally have time to.

And yes, I know he says to do that the first 90 minutes of your work day, but when your workday is in a client’s home, that doesn’t always work.

Do I Recommend This Book?

Meh. I may have enjoyed it more if I actually read it, but there is a lot of fluff in here. A lot of woo woo type stuff and I found myself thinking many times - okay just get to the point already. I feel like we were halfway through the book before any useful strategies were even discussed. So if you’re into story telling, you’d probably love this book. If you’re looking for a book jam packed with actionable information, this may not be it.

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

15 MORE Items To Quickly Declutter

On a decluttering kick and want to keep going? Here are 15 MORE items that are easy to declutter!


Paper & plastic shopping bags

Even if you are great at remembering to bring your reusables to the store, somehow shopping bags keep creeping into the house. And while keeping a few bags handy is helpful, they can quickly spiral! As professionals, we recommend setting a designated container for them. When they start to outgrow it, it’s time to throw some away!

junk mail

The best time to deal with junk mail is the second it comes into the house. The second best time is NOW! Get rid of it!

“Gifts” you didn’t want

This is a tough one for many of us, but if a gift isn’t serving you, it’s ok to let it go. The point of the gift was in the giving, not the keeping

toys YOU hate

Do your kids have a toy you can’t stand? Maybe it plays an annoying song or frequently breaks just enough that you have to step in and put it back together? Do yourself a favor and make it disappear!

wire hangers

Beauty Products you don’t use

receipts

Obviously some receipts may need to be kept for returns, insurance, or tax purposes. A general rule I follow is to toss any that are past their return window, are for an item that cost less than $200, and aren’t needed for taxes. That’s a lot of paper that can head right in the trash!

ketchup packets

Is your junk drawer full of ketchup packets, soy sauce, and take-out plasticware? In less than 30 seconds, it doesn’t have to be!

Christmas & greeting cards

Do you have cards cluttering up you entryway or counter months after you received them? Most of them can probably be recycled. If there are a few that are truly sentimental, display them or pack them away safely so they don’t get damaged.

old sunscreen

Did you know sunscreen expires? If it’s more than 3 years old, it may not be working as effectively. Throw it out!

markers that no longer work

Throw away any dried markers or pens that no long write

your out of control shred pile

free samples

If you weren’t excited enough to try something out right away, you probably won’t ever use it. Let it go!

Old Bridesmaid dresses

old prescription glasses

These can be donated to Lions/Rotary clubs at several WalMart locations.


Hi, I’m Meghan,

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!

Packing a Family of 5 for a Week Long Vacation to Colorado

We are light packers. Or at least, we try to be.

We are flying United Airlines, which apparently no longer allows carry ons without a fee. So we’ll bring one backpack for each person and the rest with go in a checked back (also with a fee).

Thankfully, the house we rented has a washer and dryer so we can get away with packing less.

I have a larger sized suitcase that I will pack myself and my 3 year old into. Here’s a quick list of what we’re packing:

My Packing List

  • 4 gym/hiking/active outfits

  • 4 sports bras

  • 1 pair of jeans

  • 3 regular tops

  • 1 pair of tennis shoes

  • 1 bathing suit

  • 1 pair of flip flops

  • 4 pairs of socks

  • Undergarments

  • Skincare

  • Makeup

  • Dental Care

  • Glasses, contacts, solution

  • Book

  • Laptop + Charger

  • Phone Charger

  • Hair straightener

  • Deoderant

My 3 year old’s packing list

  • White noise machine

  • Swim trunks + Shirt

  • 5 shorts and shirt outfits

  • 3 pjs

  • Crocs + tennis shoes

  • Dental care

  • Toys + books

everyone else

My husband and two teenagers pack themselves. What a concept! I do help with making the teens a list and running through a few key items with my husband before we leave.
Sunglasses? Hat? Swim trunks?

Each person’s backpack will have their air pods, phone chargers, laptop, books, and snacks. My son’s will have some quiet plane toys too.

Let’s go!

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Napo Houston's Evevate Your Skills All-Day Workshop and Vendor Fair

For anyone unfamiliar with Napo, it is the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (say that 10 times fast). Basically, its the professional organization for organizers. We are lucky enough to have a chapter here in Houston. They host monthly meetings plus two special events each year to provide in depth education for the members. There is a Back to Business event every October and a Vendor Fair event every May.

The vendor fair this year included 3 educational speakers and a round table in addition to the vendor fair. The event was well attended with about 45 people and quite a few vendors.

I attended with two of our team members. Here are the biggest take aways.

Pamela O’Brien on Embracing simplicity

Pamela is an award-winning interior designer, writer, and speaker. She spoke on minimalism, showed us so many beautiful examples of her work, and provided some great business tips. My key takeaways are:

  • Invest more in professional photography for our work

  • Stage your photos with plants, lighting, rugs, a bowl of lemons, etc.

  • Bold colors can still be minimalist

Stephanie king on Complexities of chronic disorganization

Stephanie is a professional organizer and owner of Status Organized. She was engaging, fun, and insightful. My key takeaways were:

  • Thank clients for reaching out to you. That’s the first step.

  • Empathy - enough said.

  • Read the book Hiring the Heavens

 

Al Naquin on Luxury Organization

Al is structural engineer turned closet designer, and he is incredible at what he does at SpaceManager Closets. My key takeaways:

  • Luxury doesn’t always mean expensive. Sometimes its rare or exclusivity.

  • Consider having a minimum project amount to qualify leads.

  • Luxury is personalized to your client’s specific needs.

Vendor Fair Vendors

  • Garage Living

  • SpaceManager

  • Junk Luggers

  • State Farm

  • The Container Store

  • Shelf Genie

  • Closets By Design

  • California Closets

  • Superb Maids Houston

Do I Recommend This event?

Definitely! The price is a steal for an all day event, plus I was able to connect with other organizers which is always valuable.

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

How to Get Organized For Summer: 8 Easy Tips

Summer has once again arrived and it can be tough to stay organized when the temperatures climb and the kids are home! If you're here in Houston, you know the extra struggle of dealing with the intense summer weather. You also know our heat means the age-old solution of “Go Play Outside” may not always be an option, adding extra stress to the summer months. How do you keep on top of it all? We can help with 8 tips to set you up for an amazing, organized summer!



  1. Check Your Seasonal supplies: 

Now’s the time to check your stash of summer essentials like bug-spray and sunblock. Look over what’s left from last year before you shop– and remember to check expirations dates! Then make a list so you only buy what you need. This will save space in your home and save you money in the future because less will go to waste.

2. Check swimwear sizes

Sort through your child’s swimwear and other summer specific clothing like camp Ts.  Move any items that are too small to siblings, friends, or your donation pile. Create a system for anything you may come across that you’re still waiting for them to grow into. While you're at it, check your beach towels. Toss what’s worn, torn, or faded and assess if you actually need any new ones this year. Knowing what you already have will help you avoid that impulse buy when Target has one featuring your kid’s current obsession!

3. Prioritize your activities

Figure out what are the most important outings and adventures for your family. Then, make them a priority! Is there a specific camp your kid is begging to do? Look up  the dates and register early. A weekend trip away you’ve been dreaming about? Pick a date and book it now. What about a special exhibit at a museum? Check the hours and make a plan. Get out your calendar and block time off for these special activities first, especially if they are date specific. Then fill in the rest with more flexible fun like pool days and family game nights!


4. Rainy Day Activity Box

I still think of this as a “rainy day plan”, but after 20 years in Houston you would think I’d know I’m just as likely to need it when it’s 101 and sunny! This is what you can easily pull out to entertain your kids on THOSE DAYS. You know the ones I mean: All their friends are out of town, there’s no camp that week, and you can’t handle another round of Chutes and Ladders. Set aside a few craft kits or LEGO sets ahead of time so you can reach for them when you need them.

5. Brainstorm summer snack & lunch ideas

I have to feed this kid all day now?! There’s nothing wrong with the occasional old-school summer day full of hot dogs and popsicles. But if you don’t want that to become your kids' entire summer diet, you need to make sure alternatives are available and easily accessible. Prep some cut-up fruits and veggies each week for quick and easy snacks. Make a list of 5 healthy lunch options your kids will actually eat to help break up the Lunchables and PBJs. And go ahead and keep those popsicles around for when the entire neighborhood is suddenly in your kitchen at 3:00pm saying “I’m hungry!”

6. Set your rules and schedule now

Come up with your screen time limits, chores, and other summer rules ahead of time. Life with kids runs more smoothly with clear expectations. It's much easier to relax rules once the summer has begun than it is to implement new habits halfway through July!


7. Summer is Hurricane Season, make sure you’re ready!

Summer hadn’t even arrive last year and we were dealing with extreme storms and power outages. Here are some essentials to get your storm prep ready so you’re not caught unprepared this year. Have a plan for drinking water. Make sure flashlights and batteries are accessible. Have a first aid kit and non-perishable food ready. For more information check out Ready.Gov


8. Create a system for wets

How many times a week can my kid come home wet?? Between swim lessons, sprinklers, and impromptu water gun fights, wet swimsuits, towels, and clothes can be a constant summer struggle! Create a system for all the wet stuff. Some great suggestions include a clothes line, designated hooks in the mudroom, or simply having your kids throw wet items directly into the washer. Creating a system now will save you before you find a musty bathing suit in a backpack two weeks too late! 

The key to staying organized over the summer is to have a plan! Whether it’s wet clothes, rules and schedules, or disaster prepping, taking time at the start of the summer to create your system will set you up for success later. What are your favorite ways to stay on top of things over the summer?

Hi, I’m Meghan,

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!






From Katy, TX to Baku, Azerbaijan - Organizing Across the Globe

It’s an incredible honor to be welcomed into our client’s home, get to know their families, and see their lives evolve over time.

A dear client of ours, who works in oil and gas, lived in Katy, TX when we first met years ago. We organized her home in Katy and when she received news that she was being transferred to Baku, Azerbaijan, we helped her declutter and inventory some items in preparation for this move.

Two years later we recevied an email “Hey, I know this might sound crazy, but would you consider coming here to organize my life”?

ABSOLUTELY! We are THRILLED for this opportunity and couldn’t wait to support her and her family again.

traveling professional organizer

Baku

Baku did not disapoint. The city is breathtakingly beautiful. Every building is stunning. The food is amazing, and the people were welcoming. The city felt safe and incredibly clean. Many people in the city spoke English, which made navigating the city much easier.

The Flame Towers light up the sky at night, and panoramic views of the Caspian Sea, the Azerbaijani Flag, and the city below were unforgettable.

 

The Organizing

When it came to organizing we knew we wouldn’t be able to address every area of the home on our limited time there, so we focused on the client’s priority areas. Thankfully, she already had all the bins and organizers that we used in her home previously, so we were able to make the most of what we had.

The Basement

A multifunctional space that serves as a playroom, game and crafts storage, pet area, and laundy room. The challenge here was that there were boxes that hadn’t been fully unpacked yet and many of the bins were filled with parts and pieces of miscellaneous toys. It took us two days to do the entire basement. A portion of which is shown here:

The Garage

A small one bay garage which holds the contents of a typical garage, but with about 25 suitcases and 10 pet carriers to work around!

The Study

Here we sorted and organized years worth of old electronics and cords that have moved from home to home.

The Bathrooms

One bathroom for the children and one for the adults. Both of which contained items that they stock up on when they travel back to the US.

Coat Closet

This makeshift mudroom is critical for day to day life with dogs and chidren. This area holds leashes, shoes, medicine, swim bag, jackets, umbrellas, and anything else they may need access to as they come and go from the home.

Overall, we had a wonderful time serving this family and traveling to such a beautiful place. We are looking forward to more traveling projects in the future!

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Perfect Pantry Organizing Tips

Whether you’re dreaming of a picture perfect pantry or you’re just tired of not being able to find what you need, as professional organizers we here to share some secrets to a well organized pantry!

houston professional organizer

Why organize your pantry

Organizing your pantry will decrease waste! Having a well organized pantry prevents over buying because you will know what you have. No more buying duplicates! It was also help limit your food waste. When you can find what your looking for when you need it, food is less likely to expire before it is used. It will also help you save time. No more wasting time searching for something when you need it!

Sort & purge

Like any area of your home, the first steps to an organized pantry are sorting and purging. Pull everything out of your pantry, tossing any expired items as you go. Use your table or counters to sort your pantry items into categories. Some frequently used categories are:

SNACKS
BAKING
BREAKFAST
BEVERAGES
PASTA & RICE
OILS & CONDIMENTS
PAPER GOODS
SPICES


Planning

Now that you have an idea of what your categories are and how much space is needed for each, you can being planning your pantry layout. You want to zone your pantry in a logical way. Think about how often items are accessed, but also think about WHO accesses them. Consider what snack you want kids to be able to grab themselves and what you may want a bit higher on the shelves.

Think about things like functionality and ease of use. Plan for your family’s needs. A stay at home parent who loves to bake has different pantry needs than a family where both parents work full time. Parents with 3 kids under 6 will need to plan very diffferntly than empty nesters.


Utilize your space

When you’re planning, consider any forgotten spaces. Use an Elfa over the door organizer to maximize this overlooked space. You may also want to use vertical space by wall mounting items. When possible, clear the floor, but, if you must use floor space, contain any items on the floor into bins to create proper homes.


choose your organizing supplies

Many of our clients go into a pantry organizing project saying they want all clear bins- in fact, many articles offering pantry organanizg tips also recommend going all in on clear bins. Clear has the advantage of allowing you to see what is inside. However, after years of organizing panties, we can tell you, clear bins INCREASE visual clutter. Our professional opinion- pair a clear option with a solid. This will give you the benefit of being able to see some items while hiding messier items like chip bags.

towne lake professional organizer

Create a uniform look

I know, I just told you to mix clear and solid bins, but once you’ve selected once clear option and one solid option, stick to your choices. Don’t be tempted later when you spot a bin that’s new and cute or on sale.. Keep your look consistent and put like bins next to like bins.

to decant or not to decant

Of all the steps involved in organizing your pantry, here is where you need to be most honest with yourself. Cansiters look amazing! But, are you going to take the time to decant your items into them? If you are up for this task- fantastic! However, if you know your lifestyle will never allow you the time to refill cannisters after a shopping trip, don’t set your beautiful new pantry up for failure! Skip the decanted flour and sugar and opt instead of a basket labeled “baking supplies”.

benders landing professional organizer

label

Label every bin and basket. You can use broad labels like “Kids’ Snacks” or specifics like “Granola Bars”. Find what works for you, but labeling is a must! This will help ensure everyone in your household can unpack groceries and find what they need.

maintain

Take inventory and “shop” your pantry before heading to the store so you don’t stock up on items you already have. The New York Times Wirecutter experts recommend tiding your pantry frequently as you unpack new groceries.


Hi, I’m Meghan,

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!

Book Review: The Pumpkin Plan by Mike Michalowicz

Why I Chose This Book

Mike Michalowicz is the author of Profit First, which I haven’t read yet, but appears to be the profit bible of small business. People follow and preach Profit First principles in just about every business space I have entered. When I heard about the term “pumpkin plan your business” in the same sentance as “reaching your ideal client and maintaining your client relationships”, from the same author as Profit First, I immediately put it on my wishlist.

I did listen to the audio version, narrated by Mike himself, which I throroughly enjoyed.

Quick Summary of The Pumpkin Plan

In the Pumpkin Plan, Mike draws an analogy between growing a giant, prize winning pumpkin and growing a successful business. Farmers who grow colossal pumpkins focus on the strongest seed, nurture it, and ruthlessly cut off the weaker vines = business owners should focus on their best clients and most profitable offerings and let go of the rest.

Mike argues that the key to sustainable growth lies in narrowing your focus to what works exceptionally well. Don’t try to be everything to everyone, but everything to the right one. There is a mix of story telling and practical actionable advice given throughout the book.

There is always a direct correlation between diluted focus and a diluted bank account.
— Mike Michalowicz
 

Top Takeaways for Business Owners

  • Plant the Right Seed
    What are your strengths? What do you like to do? Where do they overlap? What issues aren’t being addressed by your industry? Focus on the thing you do best that has the best potential to stand out.

  • Focus on Your Top Clients
    List your clients in order of revenue, highest to lowest. Strike out any that make you cringe. Evaluate who pays on time, repeat revenue, revenue potential, referral potential, history, or anything else that’s important to your unique business. Then keep your top clients, and cut the rest —EEK!

    • Survey your top clients
      How can you serve the better? What are their biggest gripes about your industry as a whole? Develop a strategy to meet their needs, then call them back and ask for their feedback on this strategy.

    • Go line by line through your expenses and cut everything that isn’t serving your top clients.

    • Create a favorite client policy and share with your team.
      When these clients call, we drop everything. Under promise, over deliver - most of the time.

  • Systematize Every Aspect of Your Business
    We’ve all heard this before. In every business book you’ve ever read…it’s the least exciting part, but probably the most crutial for your foundation.

  • Be Irresistibly Magnetic
    You need to stand out in your industry. Create a venn diagram (or picture one). Top clients, unique offering, systemization. Where these areas overlap, that is your sweet spot and your area for growth.

How I’m Applying It to My Business

I’ve started to identify who our top clients are, the ones who truly value our work, and treating them like gold. This shift in my focus has helped me elevate our customer service and deepen those relationships. At the same time, I’m quicker and more confident in saying no to projects or requests that fall outside of our focus.

Our VIPs are not necessarily the biggest revenue projects. There are many aspects that go into determining who they are. Mike provides an assessment chart and many other great tools to “Pumpkin Plan Your Business”.

Do I Recommend This Book?

ABSOLUTELY! It’s been one of my favorites to date, and one I can see myself reading year after year.

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Clutter-Free Easter Basket Ideas for Your Kids

Easter is a wonderful opportunity to get together with family and celebrate, but let’s face it…it’s often filled with an influx of stuffed animals, candy wrappers, and trinkets that add to the clutter in our homes. If you’re looking for meaningful ways to celebrate without the extra mess, here are some clutter-free Easter Basket ideas the kids will love!

Clutter Free Easter

Experience Gifts

Instead of physical gifts, consider giving your child an experience they’ll remember for years to come. The options are endless!

  • Movie Night

  • Frozen Yogurt

  • Cooking Valentine’s themed treats together

  • Ice Skating or Roller Skating

  • Art Class

  • Trip to the zoo or museum

  • Dinner experience like Hibachi

  • Cidercade

  • Top Golf

  • Bowling

  • Escape Room

Clutter free easter

Gifts they’ll actually use

  • New bathging suit, swim towel, or flip flops

  • A new book or audio book

  • Board Games

  • Pajamas (or any clothing item they need)

  • Consumables - candy, treats, goldfish, gum, etc

  • Beauty Products

  • Bubbles

  • Chalk

  • Magazine Subscription

  • Room Decor

  • LED Lights

  • Bath Toys

  • Craft or Science Kits

Overall, Easter doesn’t have to mean more stuff. Focus on experiences, quality time, and meaningful gestures rather than things.

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Jump Start Your Decluttering: 15 Items to Toss NOW!

Ready to declutter, but not sure where to start? As professional organizers, we’ve compiled a list of 15 easy to declutter items to get you moving! READY, SET, DONATE!

  1. expired medicine

    This is an easy one. Open up that medicine cabinet and get to work! Make sure you make a note about any medicines you may need to replace.

  2. outdated electronics

    Are you still holding on to your iPhone 6? The remote for a TV you no longer have? Your boombox from middle school? Get outdated or no longer needed technology out of your house. Staples will recycle most electronics for you!

  3. socks without a mate

    Are there lonely socks sitting in your laundry room pining for their partner? If you’ve managed to catch up on all the laundry (first of all- GREAT JOB!) and still no match is found, it’s time to toss.

4. candles that are more than half-used

5. business cards & flyers

I feel like everyday a new flyer or business card somehow makes it’s way into my house. Most of the time, if we need a service or even the contact information for a business associate, we can just Google it. Toss these clutter sources as quickly as they come in! If you are absolutely sure you may need someone’s info in the future, add them to your contacts! Or you can take a picture and create a folder or drive specifically for business cards.

6. shoes that hurt your feet

7. cookbooks

Unless you LOVE cooking and actually read your cookbooks, scan your favorite recipe or two from each and free up some valuable shelf space.

8. take-out containers

9 clothes that are too small

Whether the kids have outgrown them and their sentimental or you are REALLY hoping to be your goal weight again, we know this can be hard! But do it! You’ll thank yourself in the long run.

10. half-used notebooks/ old school supplies

11. books

Only save the books you are sure you’ll re-read. Don’t hang on to them in case a friend might want to borrow one- just go ahead a give them to a friend you know will enjoy them!

12. worn-looking linens

13. puzzles & games that are missing pieces

14. reusable shopping bags/ free totes

Where do these keep coming from? TOSS! Or even better, use these to collect your other donations.

15. old calendars

 

How many of these can you declutter today?


Hi, I’m Meghan,

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!

How to Organize Your Vehicle

If you’re a busy mom or a business owner, you are familiar with your car being like a second home. Shuffling kids to activiites, running errands, pulling over for client calls, driving to consultations - we spend a ton of time in our vehicles! The sheer amount of papers, empty chip bags, and gum wrappers, are enough to drive anyone crazy. With a few strategic organizing solutions, we can create a clean and functional space for on the go.

Here is a step-by-step guide to organizing your car, complete with must-have items like a trash can, organizers for your consule, and emergency supplies.

Start with a Clean Slate

Before diving into organizing, we have got to clean out that hot mess car! Listen, there is no judgement. Here’s a secret, organizers have the messiest cars of anyone I’ve ever met. Don’t ask me why. It’s a thing.

So empty it out. Yes, completely. The glove box, the console, the trunk, all of it. Toss the trash and take anything inside that doesn’t belong in your car. Give it a good wipe down and vacuum, and maybe add a smelly good.

Check out this car vacuum on Amazon. Great reviews, and it has a blower option too!

Organize the center console

At this point, you’re looking at an empty clean car and a pile of items that need to come back into the car. Decide what items you need easy access to in the center console. This is prime real estate, so choose wisely.
This is what I keep in mine:

  • Tampons

  • Backup Sunglasses

  • Pens

  • Extra business cards

  • An envelope for business receipts

  • Charger

  • Hand Sanitizer

  • Chapstick

I use these home edit organizers to keep things neat and tidy in the console. These are a game changer!

Organize the glove box

Truly, there isn’t much organizing that needs to be done here. The only thing I recommend keeping here is your vehicle manual, insurance card, and napkins or wipes as these often don’t fit well in the center console.

Organize the Trunk

There is very little that should be kept back here, if you can help it. The reality is, when hauling kids around, sometimes you need to keep some basics in the car. Plus you need some emergency supplies. Here’s what I keep in my trunk.

  • Jumper cables

  • First-Aid Kit

  • Basic Tool Kit (for work)

  • Trash Bags (for work)

  • Kids’ necessities (extra change of clothes, minimal amount of toys)

  • Car cleaning items (wipes and small vacuum)

If you have some hidden storage cubbies in your car, utilize those. If not, I like these trunk bags that keep things stored nicely.

Add a trash can

Car trash with kids is a major problem. Solution: add a trash can and empty it every time you get gas. I really don’t care which trash can you get, just get one that works for you and place it where you can actually reach it. Here are a few trash cans I like:

 

Maintain your organized car

Now that your car is nice and clean and organized, let’s keep it that way! Easier said than done, right? It’s all about building new habits and creating a routine. My suggestion is to pick a day of the week that works best for you, and complete the tasks listed below. This may be Sunday afternoon when you’re already working outside in the garden, or maybe its Friday after the kids get home from school, or maybe its after soccer on Saturday. Whatever feels the most natural for you.

  • Empty the trash

  • Bring items inside that belong inside

  • Wipe + Vacuum

  • Restock supplies

Enjoy Your Organized Ride

Pat yourself on the back and enjoy!

 

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

How to Organize Your Dream Garage

Dreaming of an organized garage? Let’s make it happen!

As the weather turns warmer, do you dream about a neater, more functional, perfectly organized garage? Maybe you want to create a space for exercise and hobbies or clear a path so your kids can get their bikes out independently. Whatever your garage goals are, we have the tips to make it happen!

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Steps to Organize Your Garage

sort & DeclutteR

Like all organizing projects, an important first step is to sort your existing stuff and toss or donate what you don’t need. The more you can get rid of the more space you can have to enjoy. This will make it easier to find things and clear more space for hobbies, exercise, a kids zone, or just to move more easily! If you aren’t sure how to purge your garage clutter, check out our Purging Tips Blog Post!

Categorize

A garage stores all kinds of things, so as you sort create categories. Here are some common garage categories to get you started: Garden, Tools, Cleaning, Kids, Camping, Holiday, Swim/Beach, Sports. Of course, garages are one of the most individualized spaces in the home, so tailor categories to your individual needs. 

Plan zones

Let your categories help you to create zones within your garage. Additionally, let logic guide you here. When planning your zones, think about how you use items and how often you need them. If you camp once a year, your camping equipment can be stored on a high shelf. However, if camping is your favorite family activity, these items may need to be more accessible.

Kids’ bikes should go near the bay door so they are easily accessible. Holiday can go up high since it’s used infrequently. Cleaning supplies may make sense where they can easily be grabbed from the door to the house. Is there a category that makes sense closest to the slop sink? Plan your zones to maximize function.

get items off the floor

As you create zones, make a plan to get as much as possible off the floor. Good shelving can be the key to an organized garage. Also, be sure to utilize wall mounts wherever possible.

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contain

Contain as many of the loose items as possible.  Generally, totes will be used for this, but smaller items may need to be contained differently. A favorite of ours is the Muti Purpose Bins from The Container Store.

Label

Label all totes and other boxes as clearly as possible. Labels will help everyone find what they’re looking for and make items more likely to be put away after use.

We hope these tips will help you achieve your perfect garage! But remember, if you can’t tackle it on your own, we’d love to help!

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Hi, I’m Meghan,

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!

Why Decluttering is Self-Care

When you think about self-care, you probably think of bubble baths, massages, a good book, or a great cup of coffee. While those are all wonderful and enjoyable ways to pamper yourself, I would argue that true self-care goes a bit deeper.

True self-care is creating a life for yourself that you don’t have to escape from. True self-care is about doing things that protect your well-being, reduce stress, and support a happier healthier you. True self-care is therapy, self-growth, working on your communication and your relationships, creating necessary boundaries, taking care of yourself physically, finacially, and….decluttering. Self-care isn’t pampering, and it isn’t easy. It’s work. Creating a life you love takes a lot of intentionality and reflection, and it is worth every second of work you put in.

The Link Between Clutter and Mental Health

Research shows that clutter leads to feelings of anxiety, overhwhelm, shame, and depression. It’s widely known that therapy and exercise is a great way to combat these feelings, but decluttering your house is rarely talked about as a possible solution.

Visual clutter overwhelms the brain and lead to a constant fight or flight response. Causing a reduction in working memory, lack of focus, and decreased productivity.

And if you think that having these feelings of anxiety and overwhelm isn’t affecting your sex life, think again.


Clutter can make us feel stressed, anxious and depressed. Research from the United States in 2009, for instance, found the levels of the stress hormone cortisol were higher in mothers whose home environment was cluttered.
— theconversation.com

The Link Between Clutter and Physical Health

Studies have shown that clutter is correlated to poor eating habits. Partipants in a cluttered spaces eat more junk food, and in more quantity, than those in a tidy space. Those with cluttered homes are also more likely to be overweight.

On the contrarty, those with tidy homes tend to exercise more.

 

My Challenge To You

My challenge to you is this: pay attention.
Pay attention to how your body and mind feel when your home is out of order vs when its in order. Pay attention to the moments that you feel particuarly close to your kids or husband - what is the state of the room you’re in?
When you’re feeling a lack of patience, bitterness, resentfulness - look around you. Just observe. Then talk about what you’ve observed to your partner and/or a therapist.

 

Make a Change

It’s time. Here are a few fun ways to get started!

  • Call some girlfriends over, drink wine, declutter together. Next weekend, go to another friend’s house and repeat.

  • Start small. You don’t have to tackle the garage you can’t walk into. You can start with a drawer, a shelf, a cabinet.

  • Make it a game. Whoever fills their box first gets ice cream! Or try the miniamlism game.

  • Make it entertaining. Turn on the Home Edit, Marie Kondo, or listen to a decluttering podcast while you work.

  • Reward yourself. Celebrate your wins by doing something you enjoy!

Final Thoughts

Self-care is about showing up for yourself - not just in the fun and pampering ways, but in the practical ways that make your day to day life more enjoyable. Decluttering isn’t just about your home. It's about your mental health, your physical health, your time, your peace, and your relationships.

So next time you feel overwhelmed, try clearing off a surface instead of taking a bath. Chances are you’ll feel lighter and more energized. That is the magic of decluttering.

 

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Decluttering Tips from our Professional Organizing Team

The first, and often most important step to getting organized, is to declutter. As professional organizers, we know that this can be a big struggle for many people. So many decisions to make! How do you know what to keep? We asked our team for their favorite tricks. So here are some tips to be like Elsa and LET IT GO!


General Decluttering Tips For Your Whole Home

If it’s not a “Hell Yes!”, it’s a no.

Marie Kondo would call this “Sparking Joy”. This is our more casual version of that advice. If you don’t love it- why keep it?! This is one of Naomi’s favorite saying. I even hear her voice when I shop, before the clutter even enters my home. Love it or let it go!

One-In, One-Out

This is an easy one. When something new enters your home, let it replace something old. This prevents you from mindlessly accumulating and ending up with 8 spatulas. This is also an easy one to teach to kids. “This is a great new unicorn hoodie! I wonder if there are any old ones that don’t fit anymore?”

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Rule of 20/20

This is a favorite from The Minimalists. If you’re holding something in your hand, trying to make that decision and feeling stuck, this can be the deal breaker. If you can replace it in under 20 minutes for less than $20, let it go.

Rule OF 90/90

Another favorite from The Minimalists. Have you used this item in the past 90 days? If not, will you use it in the next 90 days? If your answer to both questions is no, it’s probably a safe bet that you can get rid of it. 

The EX-Test

This is MY favorite! If this item was left at an ex’s apartment, would you contact them to get it back? (LOL!!)

Is it broken?

If it has been broken for more than a month and you haven’t fixed it, you’re not going to get around to it. Let it go.

stop saying “Just in case'“

Don’t allow a “just in case” to take up space.

Would i buy this again?

If you were shopping right now, would you purchase this item again?

Decluttering Your Closet


is the item in good condition?

Is it ripped, stained, faded, broken buttons, etc? Don’t bother hanging on to clothes that look worn and sloppy.

The Hanger trick

This is a popular decluttering method on social media. Turn your hangers backwards. As you wear your clothing, turn the hangers the other way. At the end of year, any hangers facing backwards are a sign that you haven’t worn that piece of clothing for that year. It’s time to purge that item. A word of caution with this one: backwards hangers may decrease the day to day functionality of your closet. However, this is a great tip for visual learners.

listen to a stylist

Rachel Nachmias, a style consultant and author of The Curated Wardrobe, offers this advice: When buying an item ask yourself, “Is it practical? Is it flattering? Do I like it?” These questions work for both shopping and when decluttering.

does it fit?

There’s nothing wrong with keeping a few items of clothing if you are currently fluctuating sizes for whatever reason- we get it! A limited selection of clothing in a size up or down makes sense for many people, especially women in our “momming” years. But if half your closet is taken up with clothing that no longer fits, it may be time for some purging. Unless there’s a great reason to hang on to a piece of clothing, if it doesn’t fit, say goodbye.

Decluttering Sentimental Items and Gifts


recognizing the reason for the gift

The importance of the gift was the giving and receiving, not the physical object. We someone give you a present, they want you to enjoy it. If you no longer do, it’s ok to re-gift it or donate it.

Treasure or chore?

A box-full of sentimental items is a treasure, a garage-full, a chore. Whether you are hanging on to sentimental items for yourself or for your family, less is more. Too many sentimental items is overwhelming! Looking through these keepsakes should be a pleasant way to reminisce, but if you keep everything your memorabilia will be a source of stress instead of joy.


Hi, I’m Meghan

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!

Tips For Decluttering With Kids

Here are some great rules from Good Housekeeping for decluttering with kids. Plus we’ve included some experts tips of our own!



Good Housekeeping: 9 New Rules For Decluttering A Kid's Room

This is a great article!! I will add the following:

As obvious as it seems, we need to tell our kids that they don't have to keep anything they don't want or like. Oftentimes, it never occurs to them that they can get rid of things. We have to give them explicit permission. 

"You don't have to keep anything in here you don't want. Isn't that great! Let's make your room exactly the way YOU want it with only the toys and clothes and books that you LOVE! Then when you come in your room, it will feel like your own little heaven. How does that sound?".

Then we MUST follow through. This scenario happens a lot. Child says "I don't like this toy anymore". Parent says "Oh, but grandma bought you that for your birthday when you were 5. Remember how much fun we had with this? You can't get rid of it". Parent then throws things away when the child isn't home, things that the parent deems unimportant. This is not helping the child. By letting them make the decisions about their room and their belongings, you are building their confidence and sense of independence. You can always veto, and you should always guide them, but let them lead when it comes to their room. You may be surprised at how much they will get rid of when you tell them to only keep the things they LOVE.

I know as a parent, we get attached to their things too. It's hard for US to let go. If you want to keep a toy or book or any item as a keepsake, that's okay! But let's get it out of their room and into a keepsake area in your home. Because ultimately, you're holding onto it for you, not for them.



Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

Five Organizing Products Professional Organizers Say NOT to Buy

The organizing industry is booming, and with that comes an endless stream of products promising to solve all your clutter problems. Some of these will be useful. Others create more issues than they solve and ultimately lead to more clutter. As professional organizers, we’ve seen it all—closets overflowing with unused bins, pantries cluttered with “organizing solutions” that don’t actually work, and garages stacked high with well intentioned purchases that only ended up adding to the chaos.

So before you fill your cart with yet another organizing gadget, here’s a list of a few products our team recommends you do NOT to buy.


  1. This toy storage solution

We have never seen this work well. Here’s why these end up in the donation pile.

  • Kids don’t put things back. The number one goal of an organized playroom is that the kids can clean up after themselves. The way this shelf is set up, they end up just throwing toys in random bins and it becomes a catch all.

  • It doesn’t maximize storage space: this design limits the type and size of toys that it can actually fit.

  • It looks bad. I mean honestly. This multi colored look is only adding to the visual clutter. Plus, even after it’s “organized” it still looks messy because everything is on display.

Try this Instead

A cube shelving system. These are so versatile and hold a ton of items. You can use them for storing items for every age group from baby and toddler toys to video games to college text books. Bonus: they’re about the same cost as the plastic toy storage organizer.

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2. Hanging Fabric Closet Organizers

These organizers hang from a closet rod and seem like a great idea, but they are not. Here’s why.

  • You lose hanging space. Often these are added to already small and cramped closets to add storage space. The problem is now you are losing precious hanging space.

  • They encourage stacking items. Stacking items is rarely a great way to organize things. Stacking makes it difficult to get to an item on the bottom and difficult to put items away neatly.

  • They look bad. The shelves sag under weight and the items on the shelves are on display, causing visual clutter.

Try this instead

Add baskets to your closet to hold the same items. Try adding a smaller storage cube shelf to the floor, or using an over the door organizer.

memorial houston closet organizer

3. Hanging Fabric Gift Wrap Organizers

Another well intentioned product that just doesn’t work. Here’s why:

  • The pockets aren’t the right size. They rarely work for gift bags.

  • They don’t hold enough. We often see these overflowing with bows and bags that don’t properly fit.

  • They’re cheap and often the weight of the wrapping paper ends up tearing the pockets.

  • They look bad. Again, all of the items are on display adding to the visual clutter.

Try this instead

Over the door Elfa Gift Wrap Solution - only if you have a minimal amount of gift wrap. If you have a collection, try storing in bins, separated by type (holiday, paper, bags, bows, etc).

4. Stackable Can Organizers

Pantries can be challenging to keep organized. These look like a dream solution…until you actually use one.

  • They often don’t fit standard pantry shelves and hang off the edge, causing a safety issue.

  • They only make sense if all the cans in each row are the same item.

  • They are difficult to re-stock and therefore, not practical.

Try this instead

3 tiered shelf for larger amounts of cans or turntables for a more minimal amount of cans. Both of these options give you more visibility and accessibility to your inventory, making them a more functonal option.

houston pantry organizer

5. Pre-Packaged or Varity Packs of Organizers

These might be a pack of nesting baskets, a variety pack of pantry canisters, or a variety pack of drawer organizers. In any case, steer clear of these.

  • The sizes aren’t practical. We often purchase these because we need one or two of the items and we think, why not get a set? With a set, many of the items included are the wrong size. You rarely need itty bitty plastic canisters, for example.

  • Varying sizes of organizers often look like visual clutter when actually in use.

Try this instead

Measure your space and get exactly what you need at a place like The Container Store, where you can purchase the exact size in the exact quantities for your particular project. The more your products match, the more appealing they will be to the eye.

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Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!

How To Save Your Kids’ Artwork, While Also Saving Your Sanity!

Do your kids bring home entire backpacks full of art projects and worksheets? Don’t let this pile overwhelm you! Let’s look at some easy ways to cherish some incredible art and then introduce the lesser pieces to the recycling bin!

Before we try to create memories from the masterpieces, let’s pull out what doesn’t need to be saved. I know we all love our kids and want to treat everything they do as special, but for the sake of your home and mental well-being, you do not need to keep every worksheet and coloring-book page they’ve ever scribbled on. Only keep and organize the art you want to look at again. Do you only want to keep the Mother’s/Father’s Day cards they’ve made?-- That’s ok. Do you only feel sentimental towards the crafts with handprints?—No problem. You get to decide how much or how little stays! 

Now that you’ve filtered out the crumpled worksheets and crayon doodles, it’s time to organize and preserve the treasurers that remain. There’s no point to saving something if it is not being stored in a manner that will prevent damage. Additionally, your storage method should reduce the clutter around your house, not add to it. Let’s look at some of our favorites!

  • File Box

As Houston-area professional organizers, this has become our go-to method for organizing artwork. It consolidates all of the art into one simple filebox and neatly organizes it by school year! Perfect!

 
  • Create A Book

Ready to go paperless? There are many great services that can create beautiful books of your child’s art. Several of our clients have had success organizing art with ArtKive. Alternatives like Scribble and Shutterfly offer a more DIY approach and they include the ability to include photos of your kids. You’ve just replaced messes of paper with a beautiful coffee table piece! Magic!

  • Google Drive

For a completely digital option, you can create a folder in your Google Drive. Just like a file box, this gives you the option to organize by school year. And you can do it all from your phone as soon as the art comes into your house. This completely avoids clutter on your counters! Easy!

  • Document Box

What if you can’t bear to part with the originals and some of the art is too big for a file? Create a box specifically for art. Underbed storage boxes are the perfect size for larger art projects. Or, elevate the look with a document box from The Container Store. Everything just goes right in the box! Simple!

Document Box from The  Container Store

 
  • Display Wall

Want to enjoy your child’s art without cluttering up every surface with paper stacks? Turn it into whimsical decor with frames. A display wall is the perfect way to encourage your little Picasso! Fun!

 

Organizing your kids’ art will solve two problems at once. It will remove clutter from your home and allow you to properly store these precious childhood memories. So go ahead and tackle this before all those beautiful creations turn into a crumpled mess at the bottom of a backpack!

 

Hi, I’m Meghan

Professional organizer, mom, former educator, wife, and auntie. I am dedicated to minimalism, greener living, and community service.

I believe organization can relieve stress and help all aspects of your life function more smoothly. I hope the information here can help you create a more peaceful home and lifestyle!


Clutter-Free Valentine's Day Ideas for Your Kids

Valentine’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to show love and appreciate for our children, but let’s face it…it’s often filled with an influx of stuffed animals, candy wrappers, and trinkets that add to the clutter in our homes. If you’re looking for meaningful ways to celebrate without the extra mess, here are some clutter-free Valentine’s Day ideas the kids will love!

Experience Gifts

Instead of physical gifts, consider giving your child an experience they’ll remember for years to come. The options are endless!

  • Movie Night

  • Frozen Yogurt

  • Cooking Valentine’s themed treats together

  • Ice Skating or Roller Skating

  • Art Class

  • Trip to the zoo or museum

  • Dinner experience like Hibachi

  • Cidercade

  • Top Golf

  • Bowling

  • Escape Room

Personalized Notes

A heartfelt note can be so much more meaningful than a trinket. Here are a few ways to share words of love with your child.

  • Love Letter Jar - write short notes or compliments on small pieces of paper and put them in a jar

  • Coupon Book - create a coupon book for things like “one extra story at bedtime” or “dinner at the park”

  • Mommy and Me journal - start a journal that you write back and forth to each other in and leave it on each other’s pillow when its their turn to write.

Gifts they’ll actually use

  • A new book or audio book

  • Board Games

  • Pajamas (or any clothing item they need)

  • Consumables - candy, treats, goldfish, gum, etc

  • Beauty Products

  • Bubbles

  • Chalk

  • Magazine Subscription

  • Room Decor

  • LED Lights

  • Bath Toys

  • Craft or Science Kits

Overall, Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to mean more stuff. Focus on experiences, quality time, and meaningful gestures rather than things. Or just keep it simple with some flowers and chocolate!

Hi, I’m Naomi!

Founder of Charming Spaces, professional organizer, wife, mom of three and passionate advocate for women.

I hope this blog is everything you’re looking for, but feel free to shoot us a message and follow us on Instagram!